{"id":3409,"date":"2020-06-24T20:41:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T20:41:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mysleepingdog.com\/?p=3409"},"modified":"2020-06-24T20:43:25","modified_gmt":"2020-06-24T20:43:25","slug":"the-importance-of-training-your-dog-to-be-independent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mysleepingdog.com\/the-importance-of-training-your-dog-to-be-independent\/","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of Training Your Dog To Be Independent"},"content":{"rendered":"
Was I the only one who got freaked out by the movie \u2018The Secret Life of Pets\u2019? Oh, don\u2019t get me wrong, it was a great movie and I laughed so hard a little pee came out (maybe I need to be housetrained). What bothered me was this looming question: what does my dog do when I\u2019m not at home? How do you know your pup isn\u2019t waiting by the door for you to come all day long? For those of us without CCTV cameras<\/a> in our homes, we may never really know.<\/span><\/p>\n My dog is grown now and he is twice as crazy as I am and knows how to entertain himself with the weirdest things, like pretending to be a lion trying to pounce on a blade of grass. Sure, he probably needs a dog psychiatrist, but point being, he is entirely independent. I don\u2019t know everything he does, but I know he can take care of himself.<\/span><\/p>\n When you leave your home every morning, you want the peace of mind that your puppy isn\u2019t depressed in a corner, just waiting for you to get back. Even though the thought of your puppy desperately waiting for your return is sweet (who doesn\u2019t want that level of love and attention?), it isn\u2019t emotionally healthy. Another part of the independence, of course, is your dog being able to eliminate in the right place or hold it in until you return, if you won\u2019t be out too long. Going to work all day and hanging out with friends until midnight, yet somehow expecting your dog to hold it in the whole time is just not realistic.<\/span><\/p>\n So then, what does it mean training your dog to be independent, why is it a must and how do I accomplish it? Keep scrolling.<\/span><\/p>\n [Related, check out the\u00a0Best Dog Beds and Houses<\/a>]<\/p>\n One thing every owner should aspire to is the confidence that no matter what happens, your dog can take care of itself. Having a dog that is able to feed itself, eliminate and flush the toilet, take its own bath and visit the vet when it\u2019s feeling poorly may not be entirely possible, but we should get as close to it as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n The first part of independence to consider is being able to leave your dog at home alone, as this may have to happen quite often, even if you live with other people.<\/span><\/p>\n When your dog is home, it should be in a good enough mood to eat if you left any food for it, toilet if it has access to the yard (if you have one), or keep it in if it has to, and play with toys, puzzles and anything else available. You should not be worried that when your pup is home alone it will chew on your expensive shoes, furniture, or break important things by jumping on tabletops or try to pry the window open.<\/span><\/p>\n [Related, check out the Best Dog Crates and Cages<\/a>]<\/p>\n The simple answer to this is that your dog needs to learn to behave appropriately when you are not home. When your dog needs you present before it can do anything, you have a problem on your hands. If your dog must have you around or be next to you while it sleeps, eats, eliminates, plays, or socializes with other dogs, it could be a sign of separation anxiety<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n When there is no one at home, your dog could hurt itself if it does not learn to be on its own. Most importantly I think, is the mental impact of a dog being too clingy. Why should a dog only be happy when you are around? If you work all day long, it would mean your dog is sad for extended periods of time. I can\u2019t handle that amount of sadness or depression, and I certainly don\u2019t want that for my puppy, and I\u2019m betting neither do you.<\/span><\/p>\n It is important to note that dependency can be inflicted on dogs by their owners. Some dogs are very independent, either because of their breed or personality. However, some owners don\u2019t like that. They want their pups to crave their presence all the time, by constantly seeking attention, forcing the dog to play games with them, or offering treats as bribes for sitting on their lap while they watch Doctor Who reruns. If you are in this category, please allow your dog to be independent. It doesn\u2019t mean poochy doesn\u2019t love you, it just means poochy is mature.<\/span><\/p>\n [Related, check out these Amazing Dog Accessories<\/a>]<\/p>\n It sounds great to have an independent puppy, but how do you train a dog to let go?<\/span><\/p>\n I love my bedroom. It is where I prefer to spend all my time when I\u2019m at home. I work, eat and play in here, but it wasn\u2019t always so. When I was naughty as a kid, my mum would say \u2018Go to your room!\u2019 and I hated it until my dad bought me a TV and some video games. Score! A dog\u2019s \u2018bedroom\u2019 should be just as alluring.<\/span><\/p>\n I am a big fan of the safety zone, which is an enclosure that can be like a bedroom for your pup. It could be an actual room, or a play-pen area set up for your dog. Within this enclosure can be your crate or doggy bed, toilet pads if you are using them, and space for your dog to stretch its legs and play.<\/span><\/p>\n This space should be the happiest place for your dog and it should not need your presence to enjoy it. With a few toys to keep it company, its feeding and watering bowls, and a toilet for the untrained, what more would a little dog need? As your dog grows older, it may have free-run of your home, though you can designate areas for it to play, like the living room or space beneath the stairs if present. Once in here, your dog should feel safe, comfortable, and entertained.<\/span><\/p>\n [Related, check out the Best Dog Collars<\/a>]<\/p>\n When your puppy first comes to your home, do spend as much time as possible getting acquainted and making it feel loved and welcome. However, this does not mean you have to carry it every single second. Yes, I know they are so cute you could just eat them up, but allow it to discover the world on its own, similar to what its mother would do.<\/span><\/p>\n One way to do this is to give your puppy something to play with, and when it is sufficiently engaged, walk away for a few seconds. Increase the time separation until you can manage 10 minutes away easily, at regular intervals. When you notice your puppy has started looking for you, then you can return immediately for the very young ones, or prolong it a bit for older ones.<\/span><\/p>\n Don\u2019t force yourself to return, if you notice your puppy spending ages with its toys. Allow it to embrace independence, it’s one of the surefire methods of training your dog to be independent. When you do return, reward it for playing on its own with praises and treats. If your puppy is not distracted by the toys, you probably should change them.<\/span><\/p>\n [Related, check out these Amazing Dog Ramps<\/a>]<\/p>\nThe Need For Independence<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n
Why Does My Dog Have To be Independent<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
How To Train Your Puppy To Be Independent<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n
Create An Environment It Loves Being In<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
Spend Time Apart, Even When Together<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n
Choosing The Right Toys<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n